It was time. We have been talking about it for months and today we finally did it.
In a weird way, it felt good and we both were completely calm about it. I guess that’s what happens when you have had a feeling inside you for a while. It grows and grows.
And when you finally act on it, it’s not that big of a step.
I know it felt the same for FreezeM, It was time. And the beginning of the new year was in fact the cause of us finally do what we should have done somewhere the year before.
But we couldn’t just go our own separate way. Neither of us could just walk out. We have three children.
So, we decided to tell the children this morning. We got our little ones around the breakfast table and told them about our decision.
They were understanding and calm. After we talked about it, we all came with a strategy how to start this day knowing what we did.
It’s going to sound weird, but after some time, we decided together Tim was to be with daddy, Lisa would be with me and Madison would spend some time with grandma.
After dropping of Maddy, Friso took Tim, I took Lisa with me and we had an awesome day!
Tim really enjoyed his daddy day and Lisa and I had SO much fun with just us girls. We really ought to take the children out on individual trips more! We have talked and thought about it so often “we should…” but we get busy and it sort of slips.
Friso & Tim went to the children’s museum “Museon”. Lisa and I went to Omniversum and saw “Dolphins”. She loves dolhpins and seeing them on such a big screen was a dream come true. And of course we had hot chocolate with a lot of cream and cookies & candy.
Great day with my awesome daughter!
And this post was not misleading AT ALL was it?