Hey, that's MY fear

We went to a petting farm yesterday. Many goats, cows, pigs, bunnies and ponies. Monkey insisted on riding on a horse. So his grandmother got a ticket and he went to wait in line. When it was his turn, a pony (or a horse? really, this city girl can not tell the difference) arrived, but it was a slightly bigger pony as the others we had seen. The young girl walking with the bigger pony sees our little toddler and smiles: "Awww,
you probably want to wait a minute for a small pony to arrive".
"Yes" we all agree. It makes sense. Small kid. Small pony.
Than it occurs to me. We're deciding this based on OUR fears.
So I change my mind: "If he's OK with it, we can let him try to sit on the big one. It's not THAT big."
And he loved it. A LOT!

We were totally assuming he would have the small/ big horse fear we all seemed to have (at least two of us have this irrational fear of big horses.)
More pictures of our sun drenched weekend:

At the playground

A picnic!

Roo, ready to hit her daddy with her tiny fist

Roo, eating her toy Tiger. She's a violent little baby, isn't she.

Monkey, on his new ride! It was a babe magnet. (I KNOW his hair needs a cut. He's going to the hairdresser tomorrow.)

My handsome hubby

A car cow wash!
Comments
How adorable is he on that horse?!
Posted by: Chantelle at May 6, 2008 8:01 PM
You expressed this perfectly. I've been working on the same issue -- letting my fears dictate what the kids do or want to do. Good for you!!
And I LOVE the photos. Gorgeous, all of you!
Posted by:
Arkie Mama at May 6, 2008 8:10 PM
I do the same things. Sometimes it's hard letting them be their own people, isn't it?
You guys look like you had a great time!
Posted by:
Alissa at May 7, 2008 1:15 AM
You guys are just IMPOSSIBLY CUTE. Looks like a great time! :)
Posted by:
Zandria at May 7, 2008 4:01 AM
Beautiful pictures! Way to go Monkey - a big horse for a Big boy! :)
Heidi
Posted by:
Heidi at May 7, 2008 8:19 PM
Oh,what a fun day! And good for you for being brave and not letting your fears dictate what Monkey's afraid of. You are such a good mommy! (I mostly just yell, myself. So I know good when I see it!)
Posted by:
madmad at May 9, 2008 8:22 PM
How adorable is he on that horse?!
You expressed this perfectly. I've been working on the same issue -- letting my fears dictate what the kids do or want to do. Good for you!!
And I LOVE the photos. Gorgeous, all of you!
I do the same things. Sometimes it's hard letting them be their own people, isn't it?
You guys look like you had a great time!
You guys are just IMPOSSIBLY CUTE. Looks like a great time! :)
Beautiful pictures! Way to go Monkey - a big horse for a Big boy! :)
Heidi
Oh,what a fun day! And good for you for being brave and not letting your fears dictate what Monkey's afraid of. You are such a good mommy! (I mostly just yell, myself. So I know good when I see it!)